Accept Me For Who I Am

There is so much frustration and anger in the world today because we expect so much of others. We project our own ideals upon them and wonder why they are not responding as we would like them to. As much as we say that we accept others for who they are, how truthful are we being? In theory, it is easy to say because it is the right thing. To believe that we are all equal in all things, but truly are we really? There is not only our personal expectations but society's as well. We are definately bound by own rules. It's only those who continue to say "Accept me for who I am" that can break the paradigm of what should be, to what can be. If we are only left to be ourselves how easy would that be. Let go of all expectations and find joy in the unexpected and often times hidden treasures will be found along the way. Today, be only who you can be. Find out who you are and have the courage to just be. We all have our own rhythmn, accept that you have an original beat to follow.

One of a kind beauty...

 

(I've worked hard to be comfortable with who I am and to understand myself and what I believe in. But the strangest thing happened today, someone said something to me that made me think "This person really gets who I am." It wasn't really an earth shattering experience, just a very quiet feel good moment. But I responded by negating what they said. That made me realize that not only do we need to accept others for who they are, but we need to accept ourselves. Knowing who we are and accepting all that we are is two different things. Wow, I've got alot of work to do.) 

 

Learning From Our Mistakes

Just by being human, we know that we'll make mistakes. Although we strive for perfection, it's by being imperfect that we grow stronger. We are who we are because of our past experiences which include all the mistakes we have made. When we keep making the same mistakes, that's when things become problematic. Acknowledging that we are not always right and that we don't know everything, leaves us open for the universe to implement it's plan for us. Learning from our mistakes, we become capable of doing all that we aspire to do. Today, be at peace with who you are. Your mistakes are only practice for what is to be.

Are there mistakes in nature...

 

(I am the first to admit that I am a mistake. Who I thought I would be or become is no longer. The universe has a way of leading me to places that I have no control. It's by giving up the control and just going with the flow that I move forward. Since being okay with who I am and being a mistake, I am so happy when my days are filled with peace and wellness. I am only who I can be.)

 

Let Faith Lead Your Way

This is a year for transformations. All that we know will change in some way. Our finances, careers, relationships, and homes will undergo challenges. If our foundation is strong, we will be able to weather the storm without too many bruises. How can we prepare for the unexpected if we are still struggling with our faith? On the surface, it may feel as if this year is especially difficult but if we believe that everything has a purpose then we are just part of the experience. It's how we handle the situation that will make a difference in the outcome. There will always be challenges in our life, but understanding that whatever happens is what makes us who we are. Having faith in that which makes us stronger, can make a world of difference between having a successful year or having a year of frustration. This is a year that we let faith lead our way. Today, give yourself permission to laugh. No matter what happens, remind yourself that tomorrow is another day to do better. Your faith is as strong as your belief that you can achieve all that you put your mind to.

There is beauty everywhere if we choose to see it...

 



 (I believe that the year of the snake, is a time when like the snake, we will shed our outer skin and become anew. We will still be the same, yet different. Although it's a natural process, it is still uncomfortable. I can see how some people would struggle against something that gives them discomfort, but that doesn't prevent what is happening. I am who I am because of my life experiences. But with a stronger faith, this year will be a year that I'm excited to see how things will evolve.)

Acknowledging Our Fears

There are too many times when we stop ourselves from doing things because of our fears. It may be difficult for us to understand why we can't overcome what seems to be holding us from moving forward. Fears are not always what they seem to be. Understanding that they are an important part of who we were and who we have become. Knowing this, we can appreciate that our fears are our first line of defense, protecting us from things we may not even be aware of. Instead of struggling to overcome them, it may be more beneficial for us to incorporate them in our planning. Acknowledging our fears, is the first step of walking on our path with confidence. Today, use your fears to attain your goals. They can help you to achieve what you want in life. Embrace your fears and let them lead you towards success.

Give up the control and let the kids cook...

 



(This message turned on me. I thought it would be all about overcoming  my fears and getting rid of them so I can achieve more. But it developed into something unexpected. Acknowledging my fears and letting them help me to understand myself. Everything that is a part of me, including my fears, is who I am. I have to own the fears that I have instead of using them as an excuse not to achieve what I want. Fears are the new motivation for me.)

 

Who Are Our Parents?

As children, we look to our parents for answers. In our eyes, they can do no wrong. In fact, this continues even as we become adults. Although we get older and mature, our parents never seem to age because they were always wise and knowing. No matter how old we become, we look up to them as being experienced guides to our own behaviors. What they taught us as we were growing up, now seem to become ingrained in our minds. So that we will probably carry on the same values with our own children. But happens when a parent betrays our trust. Learning that our parents are not perfect but make mistakes like all of us is difficult to comprehend. They are supposed to be our moral compass. For some reason, when parents fail us, we look at ourselves to fix the problem. But this will only lead to frustration on our part, because the only one who can change is the person themselves. People often overlook the consequences of their actions when they become too entangled in their fantasy. As children, the first step is acknowledging that our parents are human and can make mistakes. And second is to let them be responsible for the consequences of their actions. As children, we never see the whole picture of what is going on. Loving our parents and letting them fall is one of the hardest things to do. Today, allow yourself to breathe. You can not change anyone but yourself. As angry and confused as you may be at this time, know that there are people that support and love you. If you need to talk to someone, you are not alone. No one is perfect, especially our parents.

Those were the days...

 

(I don't know when I became the parent and my father the child. I catch myself lecturing him as if he has no clue as to what he is doing. Somewhere between raising my own children and having them grow up, my father has aged. He smiles at me when I'm telling him something and not for the first time. It's as if he understands that what I'm saying to him is out of love. I have often forgotten that he is human and can make mistakes. The question I ask myself is, do parents have a right to make mistakes? I hope so otherwise, I'm going to be in big trouble with my own kids.)

The Courage Within

There are many circumstances in our life, in which we feel that we may not have been true to ourselves. Although we may know who we are, there is something within that is not ready to stand up for all that we believe. There is a slight hesitation to be different, to speak up and rock the boat. The voice within us questions why we can't say what we feel. With discernment and respect, we can share our view of the world so why are we still standing on the sidelines nodding in agreement to everything others are saying. Each of us has something to contribute. It's the courage within us that sometimes lay dormant that will help us to speak out to what matters not only to ourselves, but to others. Even when one voice is lost, we may be missing out on an important perspective that may change the course of the world. By gathering the courage within us to speak out, we can make a difference. Today, choose to be different. Know that no matter what others may say, your voice still needs to be heard. Practice speaking quietly to yourself, until others begin to hear what you have to say. Let the courage within you gather strength so you no longer fear the opinion of others.

The road less traveled...

 

(I think for all I know of myself, it does take courage to say what I feel in front of certain people. Although it shouldn't matter who they are, it does. For one thing, if I'm in a larger crowd and I don't think my view will change the consensus then I may not. But with family and friends, then I will  because it's fun to discuss things at length. If it's true that we are all interconnected, then I guess I should be sharing more of what I believe because it may affect someone. I'll have to think about this more.)

 

Finding Your Passion

 If someone were to ask you what is your passion, how would you respond? There are many of us that may have a difficult time answering that question because we're just not sure what it means. If we can't explain it, how would we know if we had it. I guess if we were to start with what it's not, we may have a better idea. Or to be more descriptive, how would it feel to live with passion as part of our life. Sometimes when the words just don't come, it's easier just to describe the emotion. When it comes down to passion, for some of us it may feel like a blast of energy. For others, it may come with a slow understanding that what we are doing just feels right. Finding our passion may not be the key to life, but one of the many things that will bring joy to our spirit. Today, do something that makes you happy. You deserve to treat yourself as a reminder of how special you are. Passion will come if you just let yourself be you.

My children, my passion...

 

(I never really thought about what my passion was. To me it's always seemed to be an overrated word, that so many strive for but never feel they have. People have so much in life but are missing them because they are looking for more. If I interchange the word passion with love, I bet more people would see how much passion exists in their life. No more said.)