Loving Yourself

When are you going to begin loving yourself and truly believing that you are deserving? The universe continues to provide you with all the resources you need to help yourself and others, so release your insecurities. There is room in your heart to love everyone, including yourself. You do not have to give all your love away. It is time to love yourself, so that you can help others. You are yet a child that needs to be protected from those who want to steal your precious innocence. Be the light that shines with love and compassion. Today, have the strength to be yourself. Do not let others dim your light. For it is your path to guide those who are lost, on their way with your compassionate light.

 Maybe if I stand really still no one would notice I'm here..

 

(Sometimes I get caught up with other people's drama that I forget that I have a reasons to be also. It usually creeps up before I even realize what is going on. When my day gets consumed by needless concern of another person, then I know I have to go back to my foundation. When my actions, thoughts and words become less loving and compassionate, it's time to reflect upon what is truly important. Am I helping anyone when I am in this state? Am I forgetting to love myself when I am concentrating so hard on the other person? It's challenging to love myself when I am loving others too much.)

Walking Alone

Although you seek the company of others, you walk your path alone. There is no need for companionship as you journey in search of your life's purpose. It is in the solitude that you can hear your spirit. With useless chatter you hear nothing but the voices of others telling you what to do. And in moments of weakness you follow what others may say. It is not your path as you well know, but it is easier to follow others than it is to forage on your own. If you release your fears and face your future with the believe that you are here for a purpose, then you will never be lost. Trust that you are where you are supposed at this moment and all will be clear. Do not fear that you are lost, for it is this fear that binds you. You do not have to know everything, but live in the moment with love and compassion for others. Today, be kind to yourself. Seek your own company as you go through the day. Be open to all that will come to mind as you live in this new found peace. By walking alone, you may find out what your purpose is.

Imagine what you can discover if you open your mind to the impossible...

 

(I'm not sure if anyone who hasn't ever been alone can understand what this means. Being surrounded by people throughout my life, I could only imagine what it would be like. It is only being alone for one year, I can truly say that I understand. First, the silence that comes is almost deafening. Second, being alone and not having anyone around can be oppressive. And lastly, going out by myself made me feel sad. Being by myself made me appreciate my loved ones even more and yet it also made me realize the importance of being comfortable with being alone. It always seems to go back to just being.)

Releasing Expectations

Set yourself free by releasing your expectations. When you cloud your mind with standards that you and others must live by, you find yourself unable to move forward. It's as if you are imprisoned by your own rules. It becomes unbearable when others don't do what you expect them to. In your eyes, you may see failure on their part. Stop for a moment and think about what you are doing. Those you love and care for are not aware of the high standards that you have placed upon them. They don't understand when you get upset or feel disappointment. Your expectations are crippling yourself and your relationships. Release your expectations and accept yourself and others as you are meant to be. Live life with the understanding that all of you are doing the best you can to be happy and be at peace. Today, let others be themselves. Accept them for not only their strengths but their weaknesses. Be free to be unique.

Sometimes there is magic where you least expect it...

 

(It's easier said than done to release my expectations. I think that I hold fast to them because than I don't get hurt. But then, there is hurt when no one lives up to my expectations. Now that I've been doing a lot of releasing, I find that I am more at peace with not only myself but others. I find I am more happy when I let myself accept people for who they are.)

Taking The Perfect Picture

There are many of you who wish for the perfect life. Life becomes very challenging when you strive to be perfect. In fact, some of you may even think that not attaining the best reflects directly upon you. If this is so, then where does it leave you. Are you truly a reflection of your life? Does what you do or the material things that you have define who you are? When has the idea of perfection guided you to be on a path of wanting? Your search for perfection is like trying to take the perfect picture. Somehow the pictures you take never turn out exactly the way you want it, but that doesn't mean that the pictures are any less valuable. Because it's what you were doing at the time of the picture that is valuable. Pictures are only a reflection of the joy that you experience at the moment. So the next time you're thinking about wanting the perfect life, look around you and appreciate how valuable the life you are living now is as perfect as it can be. Today, just be yourself. No more, no less. You are perfect in our eyes.

Taking the perfect picture...

 

(What is perfection? I don't think I've ever strived for perfection because I'm not really sure what perfection is. I know what I want now that I'm older, but is that perfection. I guess it is in the eye of the beholder. So if that's the case, then everything under the sun is perfect. I have to think more about this concept of perfection.)

Just Be

Sometimes in life you become so scattered because you're overwhelmed with all the things that you have taken on. You are unfocused as to where you are going and no longer have a clear idea of your goals. Walking on your path is somewhat challenging when you're not sure where you are. It may seem as if you are walking in circles, for you are sure you're seeing the same place at least twice before. It's almost a feeling of deja vu. "I'm doing the same thing over and over and I'm not moving forward. Why am I stuck?" You are actually not stagnant or stuck, but protecting yourself from taking on too much. It's okay to just be for a moment and to experience a  simple lifestyle and be at peace with yourself. It's time for you to accept where you are in life and to savor the moment before things start to move  forward again. Today, just be. Don't do anything that adds to the pressure you're already giving yourself. Let your spirit lead you to a place of peace. It's time for you to be exactly where you need to be.

You'll never know how sweet these are unless you tasted them yourself...

 

(Sometimes when I'm overwhelmed I shut down. I think it's natural to go into oneself and preserve whatever energy source you have when life becomes too much. But then again, I find that I go to a place of peace on a regular basis. I hear my spirit much more clearer when I am quiet. There is less competition with outside chatter. I feel that I'll be able to help others, if I can listen to the universal messages with an open heart, an open mind, and an open spirit. It's okay to be overwhelmed because it just reminds me to slow down.)

 

Believing In Who You Are

If you could only see yourself as we see you, then you will see perfection. You are who you are supposed to be. You are where you need to be. Although you may feel lost and unsure of yourself, know that we have never left your side. As you walk through the darkness, look for the light that will guide you through life. Trust that you are able to overcome all your fears, if you only believe in who you are. It will take courage to begin moving forward, but know that we are with you every step of the way and you will never be alone on your journey towards destiny. Today, be critical of yourself. Stand up tall and be honest about your failings. For the first step of recovery is to acknowledge who you are and who you want to be. Life is not easy, but the rewards in living a life with compassion comes back to you ten fold.

Come walk with me in this peaceful garden...

 

(I understand how difficult it is to see myself as perfect. For it's my imperfections that gives me an excuse not to get things done. I didn't want the responsbilities that increases in life, that I gave excuses about why I couldn't accomplish things. Well the time for excuses are over and I need to step up to the opportunities that are coming my way. It is my destiny to be courageous and compassionate so that I can help others in their life journey. (C - You are in my prayers tonight. I wish you happiness, laughter, and true love in the coming year. Have the strength to be the person you are destined to be.)

Loving Yourself

Although you were given everything you need to be a perfect spirit, sometimes it feels as if there is something missing in your life. Especially if you have shared your life with someone who is no longer here. You will have to learn to stand on your own again and be okay with the silence that now surrounds you. When you lose a loved one, it's as if a part of your heart has gone with them but somehow you survive. It may take some time to heal but the loving memories will always live on. It is at this time when being in the moment is especially important. You are no more or no less than the perfect spirit you were born with. Even in a time of loss, you can continue your life's journey by believing that the love you had with this special person will always be with you and by remembering to love yourself enough that your spirit will begin to heal. Today, is a time to give thanks to the blessings you have received. Remembering to give as much as you receive and to love yourself as much as you love those that you care for. It is time for everyone to be honest with themselves and with those they love.

 We may look at the same thing so differently...

 

(There is never a day that goes by that I don't miss my mother. But it is the love that I have for her that makes me stronger. Whenever I think of her, I know her spirit has never left me and will always be there to watch over me. The fond memories I have of her have given me the courage to be the person I was meant to be).