Be cautious when asking others to listen to what you have to say because you may receive unsolicited advice. You forget that everyone comes with experiences which are very different from yours. And it may surprise you when they don’t agree with what you are saying and in fact will tell you what you are doing wrong. This is not exactly what you had in mind when sharing your personal feelings. So be clear if you want someone to just listen to you or if you are asking for feedback. Sometimes just talking out loud helps to clear your thoughts. Remember others truly do have the best intentions when giving you their opinion, so listen carefully and appreciate their input. But at the very end, you are the one who decides what you are going to do and where you want to be.
Lost in your thoughts…
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