It is human nature for us to think about ourselves in order to survive in the world, but how far will this take us in building relationships with others. It's a great excuse to say that "I need to think more about myself", but can't we take care of ourselves as well as others or do we need to decide one over the other. Although we are taught to help others, knowing and doing this are two different things. We know what we ought to do, but when life keeps us so busy, it's challenging to remember. When our life becomes only about ourselves, it's difficult to maintain close relationships because there isn't room for anyone but ourselves. In order to live a balanced life, we need to reasses how self involved we are and how are our behaviors and actions are affecting the people we are close to. There are times when we do need to care for ourselves, but caring for ourselves is also about maintaining healthy relationships. Today, think about how many times during the day do you refer to yourself? Now, how many times a day do you think of the well being of others? Is there a balance or are you self absorbed? No one can take anything from you that you are not willing to share. Be open to others and a whole new world with appear.
Although being by yourself may sometimes be easier, it's not always as fun...
(I didn't realize how much I've gotten used to being by myself, until my 2 college kids came home for the summer. There went the self imposed solitude I created. Sometimes I fool myself thinking that peace and quiet is the key to writing, it's not. Chaos is actually the secret to creativity.)
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